Third flaw in life, such as Although this is a bit self-comforting Ah Q spirit.
However, seven of ten things do in life, this world who does not need self-comforting,
self-motivation it? Moreover, this reason is that understanding, humor, cute.
cultural history of the world famous three geek, writer Milton was blind, great
musicians, Beethoven was deaf, gifted violinist Paganini middle age is dumb, if
Paganini
say it, 4 years old the measles, and nearly died; 7-year-old suffering from pneumonia,
and nearly died; 46 years old, the teeth all gone; sharp decline in visual acuity 47
years, almost blind; 50 years and became mute. This is one bite too much of God, but
also created a gifted violinist. Paganini 3-year-old piano, that was talent; 8-year-old
has a minor celebrity; 12-year-old held his first concert, that is, with great success.
After that, he's sound almost all over the world, with millions of admirers, his
struggle with the illness, the use of the unique magic of fingering and bowing the
melody to conquer the whole world. Bola Zi-known music critic called him
It is said that God as a shrewd businessman, to give you a sub-genius, with several
times to the suffering genius. Words really do not leave.
When things When you meet, do not complain, not to give up on themselves, top right way
is to self-motivation as the teacher did encourage each other: we are the apple bitten
by God, but God in particular like me, so that a bigger bite of the Bale.
birth background (note that the book Because it is visible, even in people born in the
background seems to good people, and he is often unsatisfactory.
Yes, because people are often dissatisfied with the status quo, so that the background
of his birth is better or not liking. However, we can not escape that reality.
many people the background of his birth was helpless. In addition to the lift on the
front of the family background, social background (for example, Mr. height is only
140cm, despite his excellent ball game skills, but in the end no one is above the
chosen him to participate in national competitions;
Li was born deaf;
... ...
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from
we do not have to teach how those born in digging a well jump on the River Thames, we
have to discuss are: the general background of birth there is
resign to fate, and then to the fate of the challenge!
Some people born in poor families, or the era of war, so the blame on others. But, what
do? We can not choose If the background of each person's birth is an apple, then the
background of birth defects like god took a bite of the apple. We can not ask him to
ruminate out, and then bends the perfect state of Apple's recovery.
Since this is destiny, then we can only accept it. We must temperament of the present
and future). Then, in fact, based on realistic starting to discover our innate
potential, to the fate of the challenge! To blow out the potential energy, bring out
your own talent, their wealth, so my style, personality, values, honor and dignity!
blame God if you are unfair to you, if you blame your parents for nothing, you can not
provide the conditions for development, can not give you money or the relationship
between funding, so give up on themselves, or from that talented, but no conditions of
people you play, or the day that if: If I were Bill Gates's son, if my brother is the
governor of ... ... So, your next generation will continue to do so, because you
certainly more than you
- because the applause, wealth, and praise for ever around the winner, no one feel
sorry for you and give you wealth, success and applause! The world has always been so!
light that we see many things, but also so that we can not see a lot of things. If
there is no night, we would not see the shining stars. Thus, even once to bear the pain
of our suffering, it will not be completely without merit. It will enable us more
determined, thinking, personality and more mature. Therefore, when difficulties and
setbacks come face to be calm, optimistic manner. Most importantly, we must not ignore
or deny their own value!
in a seminar, a famous speaker did not speak a prologue, but holding hands with a 20
dollar bill. 200 people face in the room, he asked:
He added: :
He added: Then he picked up the money, money has become dirty and wrinkled.
will countless times by their own decision or encounter adversity down, bullying and
ground to pieces. We seem to feel worthless. But no matter what happens or what will
happen in God's eyes, you will never lose value . In his view,UGG boots clearance,
dirty or clean, dress neatly, or irregular, you are priceless. Since we can not choose
destiny do not bite off an apple, can not choose perfect, then we select the
excellence! Milton was blind great writer, great musician, Beethoven was deaf, gifted
violinist Paganini middle age is dumb, they are not the perfect apples, but apples are
excellent!
temperature Do not let the frustration of yesterday make the dream of tomorrow
eclipsed!
※ life, work, we often encounter a lot of unfortunate setbacks and failures, such as
no money to study, work in the customer refuses, the task is completed do not go well
... ... this time, some people often wonder their value. In fact, you are faced with
the unfortunate and against which rubs, foot ... ... No matter what kind of attack
could not have ruined your value! Self-confidence and self-esteem is priceless! Facing
destiny, to face failure, keep on fighting and self-value!
※ Remember, no matter how much we have suffered setbacks, do not give up, because only
one life!
some life down is disabled, then give myself up, look down upon themselves, or run
away. However, this is what ways? This is destiny! If the background of each person's
birth is an apple, then, naturally red apple, there are green apples, there is a
natural nutritional deficiencies, deflated small yellow apple.
but they are all apples!
as farm saying: There is a natural big black bar, which made her feel inferior. She
never bow to walk, so often falls or bruises.
One day, she went to the jewelry store to buy the only green bow, the owner keeps
extolling her to wear the pretty bow, Jenny though not letter, but very happy, could
not help but raised his head, eager to let everyone see bump out and did not care about
people. Jenny came into the room, hit her head teacher,
that day, she received many compliments. She wanted the credit must bow, to the mirror
can be a photo, simply do not bow the head, must be a jewelry store lost touch with the
people.
self-confidence is a beautiful and original, and many people are too concerned with
appearances and lost a lot of fun.
Yes, no matter under what circumstances, you have to believe: you tall and beautiful!
bridge, we hold the hands of the deck better or worse, have to hit it vividly; life is
no different, it is not what happened, but the way we deal with it and attitudes.
If we turn around facing the light, can not be caught up in the shadows!
temperature only a high school student; her outstanding ability, but I seem to no
professional skills; that the customer is a great company, I do not know whether we can
get other people's recognition ... ... Nothing is born perfect or great. Genghis Khan
started out with only 3 people, but he thinks he will have the world's largest empire,
and he did.
※ rich and poor, regardless of Maoruo angel, or natural defects, as long as you are
tall and makes you happy --- everyone loves a cute kind of cute.
※ life must go through the counter-current to a higher level, the most important thing
is always highly of themselves.
※ You can doubt the whole world, but do not doubt yourself! If you are physically
disabled, you can not say incomplete is a beauty, but you have to believe: your smile
is the world's most beautiful smile!
little information:
need to balance life
do not know you believe, no matter what kind of life, in the short or long life needs
balance, and will in the final equilibrium. It's like This is like leaves, but it
easily into the little door.
to understand the significance of this point in life, not only we do not have to be
proud of our own strengths, not for our own shortcomings and pessimistic; also not only
have to let us know more, there is always lose the time, had lost more, there is always
the opportunity to be compensated; more importantly, so that we fully appreciate that
life is a flowing river, rocks wear air, the great tide, the snow piled up a thousand
It is a situation in life; tide cross wide, the wind is Yifan hanging, but also a scene
of life; a river in the flowing process, not always before a landscape, it is not
always after the a landscape, it is to balance the overall traffic flow will move
forward, has been into the big Jiang Da Hai. Therefore, we do not have to trade-off, we
do not have to deliberately pursue a certain point, so in such a balance in life, so
that our mind is more calm, more peace to our lives, so that our life is to become a
stretch of the picture.
Mr. Sabanci Turkey's richest man, all the running in the streets Toyota Motor, is his
home production, where there are blue signs with white letters where SA, is the
industry his family, who SA white letters with blue mark things that are the product of
his house. In Turkey, SA's logo, seen everywhere; Sabanci's name, a household name.
so rich people, but there is also ill-fated place, his two children, a son and a
daughter, is mentally disabled. Fate is cruel, and he drove like a joke. He thought
that this is in fact given him a balance of life, not to complain. His ideas, and our
thoughts are some similarities between the ancients: people have sorrow and joy, month
also wanes, the matter ancient difficult wholly. Think of life, the significance of
such a balance point, his heart is naturally balanced. On the one hand to give him the
fate of others can not match the wealth, on the other hand would give him such a
startling contrast punishment. He would like to open, and punishment can also be turned
into return, the bridge of communication between the need to balance the power of life.
He put the money he is so rich, not just to leave his two children, but built a Can
Jiren Istanbul Park, the park all the equipment is specially designed for the Can
Jiren, and even the playground rocking chair, there are wheelchairs available for
people with disabilities do not automatically get to sit down leaving the automatic
device. He hopes to be able to do things their own to balance the more people with
unhappy lives, so that their unhappy lives to reach a new equilibrium.
Mr. Sabanci has more than 70, so rich, in fact, life is very stingy. Since the legend
of his life until now, is still only one day smoking a cigar in the morning and
afternoon half and half support; is still one day drink a small cup of whiskey in a
day's work after the sun goes down Wan sat down drink. But the money, he was spending
billions of dollars, such as the Istanbul Park this disabled. His rich and poor, able-
bodied and disabled, get lost in and find their own balance.
day, we visited named in his Sabanci Museum. Museum built on the shore of the
Bosphorus, into all kinds of paintings you can view and Here was his private residence,
he donated converted into the museum. In the museum, the most interesting is a display
room, all linked to the cartoons, Mr. Sabanci. Mr. Sabanci Turkey is invited to the
cartoonists, how to paint them how ugly, more ugly as possible, painting has become
such a room full of comics. Sometimes, he went to see a house here, surrounded him,
that he painted under the control of the cartoons depicting very happy where he was
found outside, or surrounded by flowers or lens, compliment the does not have balance,
he found here in two mentally disabled children did not give him the joy of the pain.
Mr. Sabanci is really tremendous insight into the things, deep understanding of the
Samadhi of life. He really is a wise old man, to understand the true essence of
balance.
free and easy so we can have the chic of his state of mind it? Rain or shine we are to
have him self-balance of power? Like if we have, our life will be like the flies, and
Mr. Sabanci a full and happy, and proud and will not be carried away by the moment, a
moment of frustration and despair because in the end, we have, and as in Mr. Sabanci
the ups and things in their own life experiences, appreciate the balance of life to the
meaning of life.
person's life, can never be heaven is hell is not either-or choice, and always a
balance between these two forces appear. In this way, our lives in a state of
conservation of energy, and showing life in the extreme will not, or carried away or
panic. For example: Sometimes we will be in sleep state, sometimes we will be in state
of excitement; Sometimes we applauded on all sides such as the peacock, and sometimes
we will suffer such as mice drill two wooden block; sometimes we need to wipe gentian
violet Sometimes we need to apply lipstick color; sometimes we need to enema, and
sometimes we need a moisturizer ... ... yin and yang of life is in such a fit, inside
and outside the complementary and mutually reinforcing,UGG boots, both gains and losses
in the balance. Find such a balance, it will find the art of living, to find life and
meaning of life. Life balance of power, in fact anyone, we usually lives is our life
Dinghaishenzhen trivial. (Xiao Fuxing)
here, we have to do a summary.
First of all, you finally understand: the fate of the book referred to is not mentioned
in the theology of the In fact, the aforementioned
Secondly, the
Again, please remember: This book continues to provide the content and methods,
techniques, all based on our own based on the third day, leaving the starting point, on
what would be meaningless a --- way, you can always puzzled blindly believe in
life itself, no can not exercise the day after tomorrow. If you do not find an excuse
for failure, failure and lack of fear. Begin to do it! Do not delay, now is the time.
in Oklahoma a few years ago, oil was discovered on land, the land owned by an old
Indian. The old Indian life in poverty, a discovery of oil in the future, suddenly
become a rich man, so he bought a Cadillac luxury station wagon, he bought a Lincoln-
style hat, a butterfly knot ties, and draw a big black cigar, which is he went out of
the equipment. Every day he drove to a nearby small Oklahoma town. He wanted to see
everyone and hope to see by everyone. He is a friendly old man, when he drove through
the town, the car will suddenly open to the left, once open to the right to meet with
everyone he spoke. Interestingly, he never hit the extraordinary, never hurt people.
The reason is very simple, in front of his big car, with two horses.
local technician said there is no one thing wrong with the car, the old Indians never
learn to insert the key to start the engine. 100 hp car interior, and now many people
mistakenly think that only 2 horsepower car only.
Psychologists tell us that most people in the world, and that car, we have the ability
to use the capacity we have now compared the ratio is about two to five percent.
Mr. Holstein said: grave, still not playing with his instrument. Unfortunately, all the
music is not playing.
in a long time, I always think that a person's life may occur in the greatest tragedy
is to die in bed when he only learned of his land in the newly discovered oil or gold.
Now I know that a person can never be found hidden in his own body that sum of solid
wealth, this is the worse thing. Army Major Hua Ling said: size. When you learn to use
the unlimited potential within themselves, you only get a true and valuable. To help
you take full advantage of their potential, I wrote this book, I hope you read it
later, can be found or to use their inherent gold or oil wells. Your My purpose is to
bring out more to make your own and others, can enjoy the things you provide. You
already have a lot to, and now a lot of use, so you will not get smart and bankruptcy,
you should be smart and rich.
Yes, you, and Indians who, like a car, you would have hidden power of 100 horsepower,
but you only 2 horsepower! You have not found the best potential 100 horsepower area,
but only with a And to ignore or deviate from his own temperament, personality. Not you
can not have their own wells,cheap UGG boots, but you do not know how to dig!
started, you will burst out of infinite power, now is the time!
not everyone can become a
- Well if you find the source, find the way to dig wells and dig up the right way!
we mentioned earlier, well there are three types:
◎ tank-type: North Korea Although the rat race, but when tired, or have a drink of
water.
◎ Pool type: moving towards a Although we can not leave too much for future
generations, but they have absolutely no problem enjoying their later years.
◎ wells type: moving towards a
as a product, to have their own in the market place, we must do a good job
you What is the definition of success?
This is the implicit question about his career, but also the nature of the problem. On
the various planning and career choices, some are for its own success.
Everybody wants success, and each person's definition of success is different.
3 years to earn ten million is a success; have taken high-income, high social status,
the stability of the work is successful; have their own company called Success ... ...
Everyone has his own definition of success, and from of psychology, each person's
desire for success is the biggest driving force their advance. And different success is
a different location --- we call it As an artist to create a painting, the general must
have his mind the image of the painting.
However, sadly, many successful theories or professional training to this point tells
us only so far. They plausibly tell you, Napoleon said: people understand: first,
Napoleon is only one, not everyone wants to be the general's soldiers can become a
Napoleon; second, at least 90% of the soldiers are thought to be a general, as almost
everyone wants to have money, but it is not possible; third, on the contrary, the
soldiers do not want to be a general are basically good soldier.
However, we almost all believe in the training division --- which is why we spend so
much money to train, the reason why the result was unsuccessful!
then you clearly, right? They tell you:
But you have a new puzzle, now how do I do? Do not cherish the dream of a successful?
My future is not a dream!
everyone wants to Only your own dream, you can turn it into reality.
So, what kind of dream is the dream of their own it?
What are the advantages to help you succeed?
cherished a dream of success, is the premise of a cherished dream for their own, is
fundamental. The so-called right for you, that this must meet their own advantage. You
must own the existing, will be owned, can make use of the advantages are all listed,
see if it constitutes a condition of your dreams, without, lack of something, can you
win?
consider these issues, there is not excessive, unrealistic fantasy. For example, now
I'm missing is the start-up capital, but perhaps tomorrow I will be in the lottery ...
... If you everything is ready, but there is no wind, you can still be successful. What
disadvantages
hinder your success?
Similarly, if you know your strengths, what weaknesses must also be aware of the threat
to your success. The strength of a chain, decided that it is the weakest link; a barrel
how much water can take the decision in the shortest piece of wood. Sometimes seemingly
insignificant things that may make you fall short!
most people always have the confidence, sometimes too much attention to their own
advantage, while ignoring the seemingly insignificant disadvantages (note, not just the
shortcomings, but
only the maximum consistent with their own advantages, and disadvantages and can avoid
their dream, only with a It is not a dream for your future!
Yes, when you understand their strengths and weaknesses, you only have a rational,
sober-minded: this time you will realize that not everyone will be their hope that the
way that only the correct positioning themselves to be successful. Not everyone is
suitable for general, not everyone is suited to be president, not everyone is suitable
for the boss. This is the fact that everyone knows. Fortunately, as long as each person
pick up the tools, find water, adhere to dig down, everyone can speak their own wells.
This is also an undeniable fact that we are not!
but each wells the size, shape and depth are different. This is the
For example, great musician Beethoven further efforts, I am afraid it can not be a good
boxer.
A. Role
the workplace there are too many past books and training theory, lead us to a
professional position, career positioning, orientation or position trade position, they
are not wrong, but all are one-sided, or the surface of the Kung Fu, leading to a lot
of people go all out or failed. Because they ignored the more fundamental elements:
whether the efforts of seven staff their own Therefore, from now on, we have from a
professional orientation, professional orientation, industry orientation, job
orientation to the role the concept of conceptual change: The team, in the company, in
the community, in the living area around, you are, you wish, you can What is the role
act? They must be consistent with your
B.
a. behavioral change from the The best potential to be the main zone area, but a
disadvantage if a barrier to fully clear it. And some of the For example, your music
has a very good feeling, understanding and ability to grasp, but you are born with the
sound problem,Discount UGG boots, then, this is not a disadvantage (Note: Benshu
disadvantage is defined as However, you may strive to become a composer, performer,
musician.
b. From the ) change. In the past, many successful theories of professional training
and employment agencies tell you: to be successful. However, this is sad --- is the
right place, but the direction is totally different! If you have a cold for the trainer
to give you is not cool tea, ginseng and deer horn --- but always thought that the
whole world is a good thing!
c. even more sad is that when you stick a long time without success, and give up time
(in fact, while much of the direction of not meeting their frustration, and finally
They justify the conclusion is convinced: Seems be true! Thus, the great masters of
Success makes you stop complaining, but it began to blame themselves into --- efforts,
I will be successful !Although you can not leave the sun road, but you could take the
country road, but the great success of science driven into a dead end confused you!
Great Success so stifle your success!
d. the core of successful roles: irreplaceable nature. The author of hundreds of years
of follow-up study found that successful people, their success, there is a common
feature, that is, certain aspects of a certain range of time can be Whether they are
from big business owner, successful political parties, or the marketplace in the tofu a
reputation in the stalls do small business owners, all have some degree within a
certain time range, Is the so-called Therefore, no matter what position you are in,
which, as long as the potential for you, you should strive for excellence, do not
replace, a Rather than to not meet you, Requirements can not be replaced in his role on
the outstanding.
A role is within a certain range (for example, in a particular industry) is difficult
to be replaced by others, is irreplaceable. For example, a market in Xi'an, His
position in the region can not be replaced. He later authorized the secret to some
restaurants use for a fee, so, it dug a well for themselves.
not be replaced with the timing. This must not be ignored. Today is unique, if you
procrastinate, tomorrow may be the penultimate. We use this concept to guide their
career planning and the role of capacity development, to prevent the pampered, lazy,
our own
here, we further make a summary.
we finally know, a lot of people has been able to successfully dig their own wells
because they are in the process of digging, first dig their own Why? ! ! ! !
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